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Essays

Personal stories about parenting, health, pop culture and more.

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I got a psychic reading 3 months after losing my dad. How it helped me heal

I was bereft about never hearing from my dad again. After my session, the feeling changed.

I hated when other moms told me to ‘just wait.’ And now I do it myself

Yes, it's an annoying thing to say. But maybe it's not all bad.
collage of womans hand holding baby bottle next to womans hand holding car keys
collage of womans hand holding baby bottle next to womans hand holding car keys

24 hours in a 'DunKings' tracksuit

I wore the tracksuit, made famous by the Super Bowl commercial, for a full day in New York.

How a routine C-section turned into the most traumatic event of my life

Months later, I'm still processing the trauma from my birth experience.
collage of illustration of pregnant woman on top of cloud background
collage of illustration of pregnant woman on top of cloud background

Was the 3-minute eclipse worth the years I spent planning for it? Yes, and here's why

I made the trip from New York City to Llano, Texas to witness the cosmic phenomenon firsthand.
Elena Nicolaou
Elena Nicolaou

My fiancé is 17 years older than me and I’m sick of the age-gap conversation

People may judge us, but I think we’re actually a stronger couple because of the conversations about aging we’ve had.
Kelsey & Collin
Kelsey & Collin

I let my 5-year-old curse as much as he wants — here’s why

He can just say, “This is f—ing stupid!” when I tell him no more TV, or when he can’t get his Magna-Tiles to stack perfectly.
illustration of drawing on walls
illustration of drawing on walls

‘Quiet on Set’ made me feel guilty for the role I played in ’90s pop culture

As a teen magazine editor, I got to know many young celebrities. Looking back, I wonder how I didn’t see their struggles — or if maybe I just didn’t want to.
collage of Miranda Cosgrove, Amanda Bynes, and Ariana Grande
collage of Miranda Cosgrove, Amanda Bynes, and Ariana Grande

I ignored my back pain. 5 days later I almost lost my leg

Like many women, I chalked my aches up to aging. But it turns out that I have a little-known disorder called May-Thurner syndrome.

I asked my parents to stop buying junk for my kids and give them this instead

I’m sick of them spending money on toys that my children will grow bored of within days and end up in a landfill. So I got an idea.
Pile of various colorful children's toys.
Pile of various colorful children's toys.